10 Things that People, Who Value Themselves, Do Unapologetically

Ask for what they want- be clear

People who know their value won’t stand around wondering if they deserve something or not, if they want it, they go for it.

Address issues that arise promptly and courteously

People who know their value will confront relationship issues head on addressing differences, needs and desires directly with the person involved.

Give themselves regular self-care

People who know their value will take care of their bodies with regular exercise, medical needs, wellness,  proper diet and personal care.

Enjoy spending time by themselves

People who know their value enjoy spending time alone; maybe dinner and a movie, long walks or meditation.

Take responsibility for themselves

People who know their value take personal responsibility; owning their feelings, behaviors and results, without blaming others.

Protect themselves

People who know their value protect their bodies, minds and hearts.  They spend time with people who are emotionally and physically safe to be around.

Respect and care for themselves

People who know their value talk themselves up, even in the conversations to themselves.  They celebrate all of their uniqueness, showing admiration and honor. Self-deprecation is not allowed.

Forgive themselves

People who know their value realize that they are human and sometimes make mistakes.  They ask for forgiveness and forgive themselves, knowing that they can go again and do it differently next time.

Realize they are a rare original- Quit the comparison game

People who know their value don’t waste time playing the comparison game. We are all unique!  We are on different paths, with different experiences and different stories.  There is no comparison!

Accept their power

People who know their value understand that they are powerful, that one person can make a difference.  They accept the power they are endowed with and use it for the good of themselves and others!